Celebrating our 5th anny...

Fuuuuhhhhhhh!!!!!!

Rasa mcm baru kelmarin main kawen2..

Baru kelmarin kenduri.. Masih terbau2 haruman bunga melur dalam bilik pengantin.....

Masih terbayang- bayang merah inai di tangan yg cantik berukir...

Masih terbayang- bayang saat meriah bersanding..

Akad nikah....Makan beradap... tukar2 baju...

sanding.. potong kek... Malamnya majlis buka hadiah...

Semuanya masih kukuh dlm ingatan..

Cake cutting moment

Akad nikah day

Malam berinai.... Persalinan baju songket bunga tabur & lehna baju hindustan

Hantaran biru from lelaki & kaler coklat from meeeeeee...

Family suamiku, family aku, family aku from s`pore( baju ijau) & family aku from KL... 

Kenduri belah rumah lelaki 12 March 2006

After 9 years couple, 1 year engage n finally in March 2006, we`re legally married...

Rasa macam baru semalam semua tu berlaku..

rupa- rupanya dah 5 tahun perkahwinan kami..

Asam garam berumahtangga biasa la kan..

Mana ada rumahtangga yang happy sokmo.. Takde gaduh2..

Orang bisu pun bertekak but cara diorang bisu la kan..

Kita yg boleh bersuara ni lain la sikit kan bila gaduh..

Gaduh2 pun bkn sampai sebulan.. seminggu...sehari pun tak sempat...

Hehehehe..

Indahkan alam rumahtangga..

Bak kata pepatah" kalau takut dilambung ombak jgn berumah ditepi pantai"

" Sedangkan lidah lagi tergeget inikan pula suami isteri"

So semua tu aku anggap asam garam dlm mematangkan lagi hubungan aku dengan en armi mokhlis..

Makin hari makin sayang.. Ade orang tak sayang suami dia tak?

Kalau ada sah orang tu gile.. bodoh..

Kecuali suami dia ada masalah la.. Yg tu dia mmg berhak bencikan..

So apa rancangan kami utk celebrate anny kami?

Mcm poyo pun ade ek?

Dah lama2 dah baru nak celebrate..

Bukan lama.. dah masam pun..

Actually aku tak teringat pun 10th march ni our anny but mr suami yg tolong peringatkan..

It`s all because aku buat last minute result nak cancel 1 nite stay kami kat penang..

Lps antar my family in law kat aiport png coz diorang nak p jepun tgk my bro in law, aku cdg nak terus balik alor setar..

But suddently hubby told me...

" B, aritu anny kita la..."

Laaaaaaa.. ok2.. continue jer ngan plan kita nak stay sana.. But sebab our 5th anny..

So upgrade sikit la tmpt penginapan tu..

Mulanya cadang nak stay kat chalet area bt feringghi jer coz flight my in law around 9.00pm +++ so rasa macam rugi jer bayar mahal2 but juz stay a few hours jer kat hotelkan.. but since it was our anny so we book a hotel for 1 nite stay.. Enough what.. Plan nak wat candlelite dinner ngan hubby...but anak2 nak tolak manakan..

So mayb i`ll ask the hotel to provide cake n food to our rooom...

Ala- ala romantik gitu..

But what will happen i dono yet..

Just wait for my new n3 to know what will happen k...

Till then..

happy holiday..

C u soon...

A very happy marriage

Sejak kebelakangan ni kerap sgt dengar tentang cerai- berai esp di kalangan artis kita... Well they are celebrities so... no harm they`re always faced with divorce, family problems... Media, fans, frens, everybody are pointing at them.. Are looking at their fault to be blame... So as a normal people since i`m not any celebrities.. mayb a celebrities to my huby and the 2 dotters (if got the chance la.. badan pun dah out of shape, how to become a celebrities.. rite????).. saje- saje suke-suke find any arthicles bout marriage...
Mayb with more info and knowledge we can grow our marriege to a better stage.. to make my marriage become nicer and nicer from day to day.... This is what i found during my searching.... Hopefully with this tips I could get a very happy marriage... There`s no prob with our marriage.. Jgn salah paham laks.. Satgi ingat kami ada prob umahtangga.. Nope!!! Honestly nope.. I love him so much n he love me toooo.. So there`s nothing in our marriage.. Juz to get more tips to brighten our marriage.... Macam pengantin baru yg seniasa mekar.. Walawei.. kawin bukan untuk sehari 2.. Perlu banyak info untuk melayari rumahtangga kita untuk jadi yang terbaik.. untuk memberi yang lebih baik.. Rite???? Jom kita share same- same.. Utk readers yg belum kawen.. boleh baca utk info masa hadapan... Sambil- sambil layan la same gambar huduh2 masa kami kawen dolu2....

• Of course everyone is happy to be married The question is how to be 'happily married' forever and ever and ' till death do us part' . Is it possible to sustain happiness throughout.? No doubt life has its ups and downs but if you could have more ups than downs you should be happy.

( Sangat berharap agar rumahtangga kami sebegitu.. Doakan ya...)

• Marriage requires lots of efforts, lots of sacrifice, give and take- better take little and give more, no harm. If both sides want to give little but take more , then that is the beginning of troubles.

 (Betul la kan.. Kalau dua2 asyik nak menang, tak mau mengalah camna ek...)

• Remaining 'happily married' is something special and only very select few can achieve that goal..Many more couples are able to remained married but not neccessarily happy. But this is alright and at least better than divorce.

( Nauzubillah.. mintak simpang dari semua- semua tu...)

• There are as many heartaches as happy moments in married life. You are no more yourself, you have the other half. Whatever I do I have not only to think but also to involve her. Oh Boy! She is always late , to attend functions, go outing or travelling, even if I already told her that the flight is at certain time, she will be late. So what I did is to tell her the flight time is one hour earlier than the actual time. Only then you can reach the airport on time. But if I say we are going shopping , she is all ready half hour ahead of time. That is the reality.

(Yang ni memang betul dan saya sendiri akui... Kawen bukan antara kita dan suami but with the whole family members.. Bad or good depends on the family members acceptance.. 1 more, mmg betul la pompuan kalau nak shopping memang cepat.. 1 hours before dah siap.. Mlm before pegi dah tak boleh lena dibuatnya...)

• Tell you, (addressing to men), women likes to talk , not a substance talk , all empty talk among themselves ( to friends or relatives). When they do that , find something to occupy yourselves, read newspaper or books or do gardening where you can find peace of mind . If they nag at you or complain about something , run away as fast you can. Do not try to answer or argue with her. You will never win. Why pick a fight?

( This statment also need to be tumb up.. Y??? Coz correct wat.. Women likes nagging, talking nonsense, gossiping... Compare to men like my hubby.. Doesn`t bother at all when I started nagging, pot pet pot pet, talking. bla bla bla to him... When I asked y? He`ll replied " Why pick a fight?? He`ll never win.. True!!!)

• Try to bring only good news whenever you come home from work or a trip or a meeting somewhere. The same applies to wives whenever they welcome home their husbands. Tell us all the happy news of the day, good things the children had done, and all the things that can bring cheers and happiness to the tired husbands. Never, never grumble, complain, moan or groan or announce bad news affecting the family as soon as he step into the house. 

( Macam takde masa dah nak cite kat laki kita kan.. Kot iya pun tunggu la dia mandi, rehat, semayang...baru la cite bad news kat dia.. Ni dak.. Belum pun tanggal kasut laki dah cekak pinggang pot pet pot pet.. Ish!! Ini boleh bikin marah ni!!!)

• Find yourself your source of happiness. It is everywhere. There are millions of ways and all are very simple, just by saying or doing little things nice to your partner.

(Betul la korang.. semua ni bergantung pada diri kita dan pasangan untuk melayari alam rumahtangga.. Kadang2 ciput jer affort but hasilnya BOOM.... But kadang2 usaha besar tapi hasilnya SO SO jer... So it`s time to muhasabah diri masing- masing... Kalau kita nakkan BAHAGIA.. Allah pasti berikan KEBAHAGIAAN.. tapi kalau DUKA yang diinginkan maka terjadilah PERCERAIAN...)

I wish all those relatives andends who are getting married soon " A very happy Marriage - May Allah Bless You All and me too...

p/s:- saya sebenarnya tak berhak untuk bercerita ttg semua ni sbb usia perkahwinan pun baru setahun jagung but learn from a lesson to make us better...